KYLA De CLIFFORD speaks her truth

Kyla's journey spans continents and careers, with brand management in Dubai and Doha before returning to Australia in 2015 and transitioning to entrepreneurship, she founded a fragrance business and ventured into property development. A shoulder injury in 2016 and a family member being diagnosed with cancer introduced her to the world of CBD, sparking a deep dive into wellness and advocacy for natural medicines, especially for women in perimenopause and menopause. Today, Kyla empowers women to articulate their identities using a toolkit of wellness that includes cannabis. As a solo mother to three children, she gracefully balances family life with her voracious reading habit and passion for cannabis, meditation and nature.

Photography ANTONELLA MORELLI
Words KYLA DE CLIFFORD
Interview BEE MOHAMED

I’ve been a medicinal cannabis patient now for over three years. I use medicinal cannabis for chronic pain, adenomyosis, perimenopause and anxiety. My journey as a patient began after I had a shoulder injury that affected my quality of life and I was  prescribed opioids over a prolonged period of time.

The opioids were making me both physically and mentally unwell, so I kept asking for my doctor to taper me off them. However, he gave me no alternatives and continued prescribing the medications. I remember saying to him, “I feel like the painkillers are mapping a path to my brain and they told me “No, no Kyla, we have seen your scans, you definitely need these medications to manage your pain.

My father passed away as I was trying to manage my chronic pain and soon after, my mother got diagnosed with non-hodgkins lymphoma. It was a devastating time for me and during this period, I walked away from a marriage of eighteen years.

Things were very difficult during this time and it was not easy to stick to my truth for the type of treatment that worked for me.  I have always been interested in natural products, both my Nanna and Grandad have shown me a more natural way to heal, but cannabis in my limited knowledge previously, was only used recreationally. It made me super sleepy so I never thought it would give me relief for pain.

Then one day someone told me to try CBD for my pain. I did just that and realised that my anxiety was also taking a back seat. I realised that there was more to the plant than I realised.  The plant has helped me reconnect with myself, my values and who I am. From this, I  became deeply passionate about educating women on medicinal cannabis, particularly those going through perimenopause and cancer.

In trying to assist my Mum and her diagnosis, I realised how much more needs to be done in ensuring that medicinal cannabis becomes a valid form of treatment for many others. The journey she has had made me realise how little we know about the plant and that the stigma is very real, even till this day.

My core values are family, community, honesty, integrity, service, creativity and connection. I hold a strong connection to nature, the beach and the mountain anywhere that is green and lush. This experience made me more determined to educate people about the plant and to create community around the plant. To encourage other women to take what they have learned and share it with other women.

Interview with Bee Mohamed, 20 February 2024

BEE MOHAMED: As a patient, what is the one hard truth about the medicinal cannabis industry that you’d like to share with our community?

KYLA DE CLIFFORD: A large proportion of the people who are making our medicine are men, many of whom have never tried the plant themselves. They do not understand the plant. They do not understand why women need the plant. I think it’s important to try the plant and to listen to the stories from the people (particularly women) who have walked this path before us.

BM: How do you feel we can address this truth, and transform this industry?

KDC: By talking about it. By sharing our stories and our common connections to help the patients and by focusing on bringing in more women and inclusivity in this industry.  We also should (at a very minimum) ensure the clinical trials surrounding cannabis have women represented. We need to be actively recruiting women to the industry.

We can also bridge the gap between the traditional healers who have used this plant for thousands of years and the pharmaceutical industry blending the knowledge of traditional medicine with science. This alone would transform the industry.

BM: What was the hardest truth of life that you had to accept?

KDC: The hardest truth I had to accept was that the world around me wasn’t what I had understood for most of my life.

BM: What is a spiritual truth that helped your journey in life?

KDC: Self-love is transformative and handing over to a power greater than ourselves can help us heal some of the damage that the past brings. Forgiveness is key to letting go.

First forgive yourself and then take action on those around you. Inner peace is the key to all types of healing.

Contributors

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Antonella Morelli

Creative film photographer based in Bundjalung Country, Byron Bay
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Bee Mohamed

Advocate and storyteller based in Bundjalung Country, Byron Bay